Surround Yourself With What You Want

We are in tumultuous times, for many reasons. If there is one thing that these times do for us, it's help us hone in on what we want. The big problem is so many people forget to do something with that knowledge.

Once you KNOW what you want, SURROUND yourself with it.

For example, say you want a loving romantic relationship. Get in the vibe of LOVE! Surround yourself with LOVE! How can you do that?

You can watch romantic movies or romantic comedies about relationships.

You can get a new piece of art for your wall that depicts a good relationship.

You can make time to see or speak with a couple you know that has a good relationship.

You can read a book about the psychology of healthy relationships.

You can listen to love songs.

Surround yourself with the thoughts, sounds, images and songs of love.

So often, people will take something they want, and surround themselves with proof of the lack of it. They will look everywhere for proof of not having something, which keeps them in an energy of lack which makes it much harder for the energy to the universe to OVERRIDE that lack to bring you what you want.

Get out of the lack space and get into an ABUNDANT space. Surround yourself with proof that it CAN HAPPEN. That it DOES HAPPEN. Invite it in. Focus on it. Celebrate it. Enjoy the idea of it. Day dream about it.

No one wants to sign up for a relationship with a desperate person. They want to sign-up for a relationship with a fun, loving and wonderful person. Are your actions telling that story? Or are they telling a story of lack?

Once you know what you want, FILL YOUR LIFE with the essence of it. Then see how things feel for you.

With big love for your big creative heart.